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Monday the 4th of September, 2006

Seven Days till the World Stood Still

Please make it a note to come back and visit Fiercepoet.com over the next 7 days.  I’m going to be posting a tribute each day leading up to the 5th Anniversary of September 11th on which day I’ll be honoring Kenneth Tietjen as part of the 2996 Project.

I would simply just ask people to “Remember...”

Robert

Posted by rtkenmore at 03:15 AM on the 4th of September, 2006.
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Tuesday the 29th of August, 2006

No Compromise

I’ve posted this before but I feel the need to post it again now.  I don’t know why.

I recently listened to a series of insightful lectures on the American Civil War given by Dr. Gary Gallagher, a professor of History at the University of Virginia. Early on, Dr. Gallagher analyzed the failure of America’s political leadership to find a compromise on slavery in the days and years leading up to secession and the catastrophic and bloody war. There was the careful attempt to admit to the Union, in tandem, one slave state and one free state to insure the balance of power in the Senate. Henry Clay of Kentucky, the “great compromiser” helped to work out the division of Western territory so that this balance was to be preserved “in perpetuity.” Slavery, however, was not a political battle that could ultimately be negotiated; it was rather a moral battle that did not lend itself to compromise. It pitted a new consciousness against a dying definition. Slavery could not be partially moral or moral under some circumstances. It was either moral or immoral. There was no middle ground.

In the slavery debate, those who shared the new consciousness were quite clear. Human beings cannot be held in bondage. This new consciousness challenged those definitions, which suggested that some people did not qualify as human beings; that some people were primitive, childlike, created to be subservient, and were, therefore, fit for nothing other than manual labor. Within that definition, slavery was deemed to be morally acceptable and those who held this position actually believed that slavery was virtuous, since the slaves were assumed to be receiving the benefits of better health, longer life and wonderful new opportunities in “a civilized and Christian land.” These arguments sound strange, even hostile, to us today but ideas of racial superiority were still a powerful force in the Western world as late as the 20th century, fueling World War II, that cost the lives of over one hundred million people.

I thought about this period of history as I read of my own church, the Anglican Communion, seeking a way, “for the sake of unity,” to accommodate divergent opinions on the issue of homosexuality. The Church’s leadership is acting as if negotiation is possible in this conflict, yet the obvious fact is that homosexuality, like slavery, is a moral issue and thus not amenable to compromise. Once again today’s debate pits an emerging consciousness against a dying definition. The old definition asserts that homosexuality is a choice that evil, perverted or subhuman people make. It cannot, therefore, be tolerated.

People whose depravity causes them to choose “this lifestyle” must be converted or removed lest they destroy the social order; if they are homosexual because of a mental illness, they must be cured or isolated lest they infect the health of all our citizens. That is the definition, stated honestly but more baldly than its proponents will appreciate, that is held by those who call themselves conservative or traditional Christians. I suspect, based on the results of our recent election, that they are a majority in the body politic of America at this moment. They are, however, a frightened majority because every statistical study indicates that this point of view is declining. To defend this position by claiming that the refusal to accept this perspective will destroy “the unity of the Church,” is a breathtakingly bankrupt idea. Trapped inside dying definitions, these Christians assume that not to agree with them places their critics on the side of immorality and moral anarchy.

The emerging new consciousness, on the other hand, rejects every part of that definition. It asserts that homosexual people are neither morally depraved nor mentally sick, since one’s sexual orientation is not a choice; but something to which one awakens. It is like the dawning realization that one is male or female, part of a particular race or nation or even right or left-handed. A just and moral society cannot be erected on a premise that some human beings are subhuman or perverted, not on the basis of their doing but on the basis of their being. It matters not what any source of ancient wisdom has previously declared.

The Bible, for example, was once quoted to support slavery, to oppose science and to prevent women from achieving equality. On every one of those issues the Bible was quite simply wrong. To quote it now to uphold the evil of homophobia is no less wrong. These efforts will fail as they always do. The ultimate tragedy is, however, that some church leaders, ever on the wrong side of great moral questions of history, never seem to learn history’s lesson that any prejudice once publicly challenged by a new consciousness is doomed.

As I survey the debate on this issue in all parts of the Christian tradition, a tragic failure of leadership is once again depressingly obvious. The Roman Catholic hierarchy simply takes the old definition and labors first to defang it and then to perfume it. They call homosexuality “unnatural,” or “a deviation,” urging that it be suppressed wherever possible and controlled where not possible.
Homosexuality, however, has now been incontrovertibly identified as present in the world of higher mammals. It also appears to be a stable and unchanging percentage of the human ran race at all times and in all places. These data suggest that homosexuality is not unnatural at all but is a minority aspect of the created order that appears quite normally in all higher forms of life. Furthermore, this negativity in the Roman Catholic tradition is without character since it is both known and privately acknowledged that a major percentage of Roman Catholic clergy throughout history, including today, have been and are gay males.

To watch the leaders of this church condemn that which is a fact in the lives of its cardinals, bishops and priests is either dishonest or an act of unconscious psychological denial.

The evangelical and fundamentalist churches proclaim that these definitions of antiquity embody the eternal truth of God and any attempt to change them is either the work of Satan or a godless secular spirit that is challenging the word of God in the name of immorality. Yet the new consciousness is dawning there too. As long ago as 1988, the Southern Baptist Convention voted by over a 90% majority to “reaffirm” its condemnation of homosexuality as “behavior repugnant to God” and “condemned by scripture.” They seemed not to recognize that any definition that has to be reaffirmed is no longer holding. The only questions are how protracted will the debate be and how many people will be hurt before that prejudice dies. When anyone seeks to protect a dying definition, failure is inevitable.

The leaders of the mainline churches, aware of the new consciousness, pretend that some compromise is possible. They seek to protect unity by attempting to civilize the debate until a new consensus arrives. They count “the unity of the church” as a worthy goal even as that forced unity violates that Institution’s integrity. Can you imagine that part of the Church that said no to slavery being asked to apologize for upsetting the consciences of the slaveholders? Can you imagine Church leaders saying to slaveholders, “we will not challenge the morality of your decisions about slaves because we would rather keep our faith community united?” Can you imagine coddling slaveholders so that they will not separate themselves in schism from the Church? Can anyone imagine any slave-holding church claiming to be the body of Christ?

Yet if you substitute the word homosexuality for the word slavery, that is what is present today in the main line churches. If homosexuality is a given not a chosen way of life, the continued violation of gay and lesbian people, in order to preserve unity with the Church’s homophobic constituency, is simply immoral. Not to bear corporate witness to those who still languish in the dying definitions of the past is to turn one’s back on the very meaning of the Christ. Do we imagine that Jesus’ invitation was, “Come unto me, some of ye.” instead of “Come unto me, all ye?” Can any Church discriminate against any child of God and still sing, “Just as I am, without one plea, O Lamb of God, I come”?

Slavery could not be compromised in the 19th century because slavery was finally understood as a moral issue. Homosexuality cannot be compromised in the 21st century because it too is a moral issue. To the threats of parts of the Christian Church to leave if homosexual people are welcomed fully without any distinction, the body of Christ must be prepared to say, “That is your choice but we do not compromise truth to comfort you in your prejudice. The Church’s doors will be open when your consciousness is finally formed and you decide to return, but we will not reject homosexuals now to avoid offending you. If the essence of our Christ is summed up in words that John’s Gospel attributes to him, “I have come that they may have life and have it abundantly,” then the choice is clear. Homophobia diminishes life; it does not make it more abundant. It must be ended; it cannot be tolerated even by making it kinder and gentler.

To the leaders of the Churches today I say: “Stop playing ecclesiastical games. Compromising truth never serves the cause of unity. The call of Christ is not to be all things to all people. The time for negotiating and compromising is over. It matters not if you are the Pope, the Archbishop of Canterbury or one of the heads of the various national and international bodies of Christians around the world, both the moral integrity of the Christ you claim to serve and your ability to speak for Christ on any other issue are at stake. There is no room for waffling on this moral imperative. The idea that you will allow politicians to advocate placing discrimination against homosexual persons into the Constitution of this country, while your voices are either in agreement or remain deafeningly silent, is an embarrassment. If it takes a split in the body of Christ to make this generation understand that homosexuality, like slavery, is a non-debatable, moral issue, then for God’s sake, for Christ’s sake, you must be willing to pay that price.”

-- John Shelby Spong

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Wednesday the 28th of June, 2006

About a Poet

Most everything you’ve probably ever wanted to know and then some…

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name:Robert Kenmore
Birthday:03/25/1978
Birthplace:Panama City, FL
Current Location:Birmingham, AL
Eye Color:Brown
Hair Color:Brown
Height:5’ 10”
Right Handed or Left Handed:Right
Your Heritage:Good old Southern Boy
The Shoes You Wore Today:Loafers
Your Weakness:Cheesecake
Your Fears:Snakes & Being Alone
Your Perfect Pizza:Pineapple & Ham
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year:I won’t mention that
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger:so...
Thoughts First Waking Up:Damn, I have to get up again
Your Best Physical Feature:Eyes
Your Bedtime:10-11
Your Most Missed Memory:My first love
Pepsi or Coke:Mountain Dew or Sprite
MacDonalds or Burger King:Wendy’s
Single or Group Dates:Single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea:Luzianne
Chocolate or Vanilla:Butter Pecan
Cappuccino or Coffee:Vanilla Frappachino
Do you Smoke:No
Do you Swear:I plead the 5th
Do you Sing:Sometimes
Do you Shower Daily:Of course
Have you Been in Love:Yes
Do you want to go to College:In college now
Do you want to get Married:One day when Mr. Right comes along.
Do you belive in yourself:Most of the time
Do you get Motion Sickness:No
Are you a Health Freak:No
Do you get along with your Parents:Most of the time
Do you like Thunderstorms:Love to sit and watch them in the distance
Do you play an Instrument:Played trumpet for 6 years
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol:Yes
In the past month have you Smoked:No
In the past month have you been on Drugs:No
In the past month have you gone on a Date:Yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall:Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos:No
In the past month have you eaten Sushi:No
In the past month have you been on Stage:No
In the past month have you been Dumped:No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping:No
In the past month have you Stolen Anything:No
Ever been Drunk:Yes
Ever been called a Tease:Yes
Ever been Beaten up:No
Ever Shoplifted:No
How do you want to Die:I don’t want to think about it
What do you want to be when you Grow Up:Too many things
What country would you most like to Visit:Italy
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color:Blue
Favourite Hair Color:Blonde
Short or Long Hair:Short
Height:Taller than me
Weight:Not a stick but not a whale either
Best Clothing Style:Casual
Number of Drugs I have taken:1
Number of CDs I own:200+ & 2300+ songs on iTunes
Number of Piercings:None
Number of Tattoos:None
Number of things in my Past I Regret:I don’t regret.  Forget Regret or Life is Yours to Miss!

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Monday the 27th of February, 2006

Coming soon…

to a monitor near you: The New Fiercepoet.com.

I’ve been working on a modified site for some time now.  Completely different site I should say.  Besides content, about the only holdover from the existing site will be the random images in the header.  Layout and design will pretty much be completely new (although how much can you really alter a blog???).

Keep your eyes open as you may see signs of the new site periodically as I switch templates over and test them.  I’m not going to completely go live until I make sure all the kinks are worked out.

Robert

Posted by rtkenmore at 06:54 PM on the 27th of February, 2006.
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Tuesday the 18th of January, 2005

Pardon the Dust

Pardon the sudden discombobulation around the site.  I decided to move some thing around in an attempt to also create a little bit more organized site.  I’ve added a few pages (which I’ve been meaning to for a while) such as a completely seperate “About” page; as well as seperate “Colophon”, “Links”, “Contact” & “Disclaimer” pages.  For too long I’ve relied on my sidebar to function as pretty much all of these and it was time to shorten the sidebar to a much more usable size.  I’m still hesitant about some of the last remaining items and whether to move them or do away with them.  You may continue to see changes over the next several days/weeks.

As always, suggestions and comments are welcome.

Posted by rtkenmore at 12:42 AM on the 18th of January, 2005.
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Saturday the 8th of January, 2005

Blog Explosion Visitors

If you’re visiting from Blog Explosion, please leave a quick comment to let me know.  I’d like to see just how well the system works at sending viewers.  And if you have the time or care to make the effort, comment about my site at Blog Explosion & rate it.  Thanks, The Poet.

Posted by rtkenmore at 07:26 PM on the 8th of January, 2005.
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Thursday the 6th of January, 2005

More New Features

The more spare time I come up with the more new features I discover that I can use.  Check out the “Posted by:” section of each now now.  I’ve added a simple way to “Tell-a-Friend” or “Contact” myself.

If you haven’t found the Galleries by way of the previous post then check out the link at the top of the page menu now as well.  I can’t believe I finally have personal photos posted on my site.  Boy what a long, strange road it’s been.

The “Tell-a-Friend” link simple goes to a quick form where you can fill in your name, e-mail & your friends e-mail in order to send a copy of an entry to them.

The “Contact The Poet” link works much the same way in that it gives you a quick form to fill in your name, e-mail and some comments to send myself.  Keep in mind however that I hold the right to publish any comments sent via the form to the site if I so desire (I do give credit where credit is due however).

I’m working on some other new features as well.

Posted by rtkenmore at 07:38 PM on the 6th of January, 2005.
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Tuesday the 28th of December, 2004

Fiercepoet.com 2005

I’ve done a recent upgrade to my website software which include a new gallery program for images.  I’m planning on finally (to many peoples delight) adding images to the site.  Including myself of course.  Look for the changes over the coming weeks.

And just for you Shwa, I’ll get some photos of the new place here in Birmingham.

Another change should be more regular updates as I have time on my hands how that I’m living in Birmingham.  I want to write more and more often as well as begin exploring the area for photography.  I imagine I’ll be seeking a new digital camara fairly quickly if I really do get into the photography however.  My camara isn’t the best in the world but it does the job for now.

Updates to come as my mind spins ‘round from recent developments.  Life is strange the curve balls it throws you.

Your-Pondering-the-Future-Gay-Blogger

Posted by rtkenmore at 02:29 AM on the 28th of December, 2004.
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Monday the 18th of October, 2004

In an effort to be free…

I’ve added a new feature if you want to call it that even to the site.  I’ve started including a “personal comments” or such to certain entries.  Personal entries obviously are already personal.  However, when I post songs or quotes or some other items, I don’t always give a reason for the posting.  I never felt it proper to post something in the same word as someones song lyrics.  I give the artist credit where credit is due and leave it at that.  But as you can see with “I Hope You Dance”, the new thoughts are there.  Obviously a part of the entry yet seperate from the post.  I’m going to go back through the archives over time and add my thoughts on other entries.  I’ll eventually create a page with nothing but these thoughts so that they can be read and then linked to the individual entries page.

I’m slowly developing my identity online.  I’m still coming out so to speak although I’ve been out for over 7 years now.  It’s hard to change the past and I’ve always treated my website with such a guarded eye.  Once I started referencing my homosexuality through my online presence, all concrete ties to who was the behind the site disappeared.  Now I’m back in a way and I’m living life again.

I keep telling myself I’m going to work on a “100 Things” list and post that so that you can get an insight into the life of the Poet (who also goes by Robert but I think I’ve signed some post that way already).

Posted by rtkenmore at 11:10 PM on the 18th of October, 2004.
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Sunday the 3rd of October, 2004

Who’s Your Inner Gay Man?

You're Rufus!

Congrats, you’ve got a little Rufus in you! Raised on opera and his mother’s show-biz sensibility, Rufus is a master songwriter and performer.  Though prone to excess and moodiness, his off-kilter sense of humor and fashion and his radiant presence make him a joy to be around.  Don’t be ashamed; if this still small voice speaks up within you (with a bit of a slur and a lisp), listen up! He could make you a star.

Who’s your inner gay man?
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Posted by rtkenmore at 07:27 PM on the 3rd of October, 2004.
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