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Monday the 4th of September, 2006

Seven Days till the World Stood Still

Please make it a note to come back and visit Fiercepoet.com over the next 7 days.  I’m going to be posting a tribute each day leading up to the 5th Anniversary of September 11th on which day I’ll be honoring Kenneth Tietjen as part of the 2996 Project.

I would simply just ask people to “Remember...”

Robert

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Tuesday the 29th of August, 2006

No Compromise

I’ve posted this before but I feel the need to post it again now.  I don’t know why.

I recently listened to a series of insightful lectures on the American Civil War given by Dr. Gary Gallagher, a professor of History at the University of Virginia. Early on, Dr. Gallagher analyzed the failure of America’s political leadership to find a compromise on slavery in the days and years leading up to secession and the catastrophic and bloody war. There was the careful attempt to admit to the Union, in tandem, one slave state and one free state to insure the balance of power in the Senate. Henry Clay of Kentucky, the “great compromiser” helped to work out the division of Western territory so that this balance was to be preserved “in perpetuity.” Slavery, however, was not a political battle that could ultimately be negotiated; it was rather a moral battle that did not lend itself to compromise. It pitted a new consciousness against a dying definition. Slavery could not be partially moral or moral under some circumstances. It was either moral or immoral. There was no middle ground.

In the slavery debate, those who shared the new consciousness were quite clear. Human beings cannot be held in bondage. This new consciousness challenged those definitions, which suggested that some people did not qualify as human beings; that some people were primitive, childlike, created to be subservient, and were, therefore, fit for nothing other than manual labor. Within that definition, slavery was deemed to be morally acceptable and those who held this position actually believed that slavery was virtuous, since the slaves were assumed to be receiving the benefits of better health, longer life and wonderful new opportunities in “a civilized and Christian land.” These arguments sound strange, even hostile, to us today but ideas of racial superiority were still a powerful force in the Western world as late as the 20th century, fueling World War II, that cost the lives of over one hundred million people.

I thought about this period of history as I read of my own church, the Anglican Communion, seeking a way, “for the sake of unity,” to accommodate divergent opinions on the issue of homosexuality. The Church’s leadership is acting as if negotiation is possible in this conflict, yet the obvious fact is that homosexuality, like slavery, is a moral issue and thus not amenable to compromise. Once again today’s debate pits an emerging consciousness against a dying definition. The old definition asserts that homosexuality is a choice that evil, perverted or subhuman people make. It cannot, therefore, be tolerated.

People whose depravity causes them to choose “this lifestyle” must be converted or removed lest they destroy the social order; if they are homosexual because of a mental illness, they must be cured or isolated lest they infect the health of all our citizens. That is the definition, stated honestly but more baldly than its proponents will appreciate, that is held by those who call themselves conservative or traditional Christians. I suspect, based on the results of our recent election, that they are a majority in the body politic of America at this moment. They are, however, a frightened majority because every statistical study indicates that this point of view is declining. To defend this position by claiming that the refusal to accept this perspective will destroy “the unity of the Church,” is a breathtakingly bankrupt idea. Trapped inside dying definitions, these Christians assume that not to agree with them places their critics on the side of immorality and moral anarchy.

The emerging new consciousness, on the other hand, rejects every part of that definition. It asserts that homosexual people are neither morally depraved nor mentally sick, since one’s sexual orientation is not a choice; but something to which one awakens. It is like the dawning realization that one is male or female, part of a particular race or nation or even right or left-handed. A just and moral society cannot be erected on a premise that some human beings are subhuman or perverted, not on the basis of their doing but on the basis of their being. It matters not what any source of ancient wisdom has previously declared.

The Bible, for example, was once quoted to support slavery, to oppose science and to prevent women from achieving equality. On every one of those issues the Bible was quite simply wrong. To quote it now to uphold the evil of homophobia is no less wrong. These efforts will fail as they always do. The ultimate tragedy is, however, that some church leaders, ever on the wrong side of great moral questions of history, never seem to learn history’s lesson that any prejudice once publicly challenged by a new consciousness is doomed.

As I survey the debate on this issue in all parts of the Christian tradition, a tragic failure of leadership is once again depressingly obvious. The Roman Catholic hierarchy simply takes the old definition and labors first to defang it and then to perfume it. They call homosexuality “unnatural,” or “a deviation,” urging that it be suppressed wherever possible and controlled where not possible.
Homosexuality, however, has now been incontrovertibly identified as present in the world of higher mammals. It also appears to be a stable and unchanging percentage of the human ran race at all times and in all places. These data suggest that homosexuality is not unnatural at all but is a minority aspect of the created order that appears quite normally in all higher forms of life. Furthermore, this negativity in the Roman Catholic tradition is without character since it is both known and privately acknowledged that a major percentage of Roman Catholic clergy throughout history, including today, have been and are gay males.

To watch the leaders of this church condemn that which is a fact in the lives of its cardinals, bishops and priests is either dishonest or an act of unconscious psychological denial.

The evangelical and fundamentalist churches proclaim that these definitions of antiquity embody the eternal truth of God and any attempt to change them is either the work of Satan or a godless secular spirit that is challenging the word of God in the name of immorality. Yet the new consciousness is dawning there too. As long ago as 1988, the Southern Baptist Convention voted by over a 90% majority to “reaffirm” its condemnation of homosexuality as “behavior repugnant to God” and “condemned by scripture.” They seemed not to recognize that any definition that has to be reaffirmed is no longer holding. The only questions are how protracted will the debate be and how many people will be hurt before that prejudice dies. When anyone seeks to protect a dying definition, failure is inevitable.

The leaders of the mainline churches, aware of the new consciousness, pretend that some compromise is possible. They seek to protect unity by attempting to civilize the debate until a new consensus arrives. They count “the unity of the church” as a worthy goal even as that forced unity violates that Institution’s integrity. Can you imagine that part of the Church that said no to slavery being asked to apologize for upsetting the consciences of the slaveholders? Can you imagine Church leaders saying to slaveholders, “we will not challenge the morality of your decisions about slaves because we would rather keep our faith community united?” Can you imagine coddling slaveholders so that they will not separate themselves in schism from the Church? Can anyone imagine any slave-holding church claiming to be the body of Christ?

Yet if you substitute the word homosexuality for the word slavery, that is what is present today in the main line churches. If homosexuality is a given not a chosen way of life, the continued violation of gay and lesbian people, in order to preserve unity with the Church’s homophobic constituency, is simply immoral. Not to bear corporate witness to those who still languish in the dying definitions of the past is to turn one’s back on the very meaning of the Christ. Do we imagine that Jesus’ invitation was, “Come unto me, some of ye.” instead of “Come unto me, all ye?” Can any Church discriminate against any child of God and still sing, “Just as I am, without one plea, O Lamb of God, I come”?

Slavery could not be compromised in the 19th century because slavery was finally understood as a moral issue. Homosexuality cannot be compromised in the 21st century because it too is a moral issue. To the threats of parts of the Christian Church to leave if homosexual people are welcomed fully without any distinction, the body of Christ must be prepared to say, “That is your choice but we do not compromise truth to comfort you in your prejudice. The Church’s doors will be open when your consciousness is finally formed and you decide to return, but we will not reject homosexuals now to avoid offending you. If the essence of our Christ is summed up in words that John’s Gospel attributes to him, “I have come that they may have life and have it abundantly,” then the choice is clear. Homophobia diminishes life; it does not make it more abundant. It must be ended; it cannot be tolerated even by making it kinder and gentler.

To the leaders of the Churches today I say: “Stop playing ecclesiastical games. Compromising truth never serves the cause of unity. The call of Christ is not to be all things to all people. The time for negotiating and compromising is over. It matters not if you are the Pope, the Archbishop of Canterbury or one of the heads of the various national and international bodies of Christians around the world, both the moral integrity of the Christ you claim to serve and your ability to speak for Christ on any other issue are at stake. There is no room for waffling on this moral imperative. The idea that you will allow politicians to advocate placing discrimination against homosexual persons into the Constitution of this country, while your voices are either in agreement or remain deafeningly silent, is an embarrassment. If it takes a split in the body of Christ to make this generation understand that homosexuality, like slavery, is a non-debatable, moral issue, then for God’s sake, for Christ’s sake, you must be willing to pay that price.”

-- John Shelby Spong

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Wednesday the 28th of June, 2006

About a Poet

Most everything you’ve probably ever wanted to know and then some…

TELL ME ABOUT YOURSELF - The Survey
Name:Robert Kenmore
Birthday:03/25/1978
Birthplace:Panama City, FL
Current Location:Birmingham, AL
Eye Color:Brown
Hair Color:Brown
Height:5’ 10”
Right Handed or Left Handed:Right
Your Heritage:Good old Southern Boy
The Shoes You Wore Today:Loafers
Your Weakness:Cheesecake
Your Fears:Snakes & Being Alone
Your Perfect Pizza:Pineapple & Ham
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year:I won’t mention that
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger:so...
Thoughts First Waking Up:Damn, I have to get up again
Your Best Physical Feature:Eyes
Your Bedtime:10-11
Your Most Missed Memory:My first love
Pepsi or Coke:Mountain Dew or Sprite
MacDonalds or Burger King:Wendy’s
Single or Group Dates:Single
Lipton Ice Tea or Nestea:Luzianne
Chocolate or Vanilla:Butter Pecan
Cappuccino or Coffee:Vanilla Frappachino
Do you Smoke:No
Do you Swear:I plead the 5th
Do you Sing:Sometimes
Do you Shower Daily:Of course
Have you Been in Love:Yes
Do you want to go to College:In college now
Do you want to get Married:One day when Mr. Right comes along.
Do you belive in yourself:Most of the time
Do you get Motion Sickness:No
Are you a Health Freak:No
Do you get along with your Parents:Most of the time
Do you like Thunderstorms:Love to sit and watch them in the distance
Do you play an Instrument:Played trumpet for 6 years
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol:Yes
In the past month have you Smoked:No
In the past month have you been on Drugs:No
In the past month have you gone on a Date:Yes
In the past month have you gone to a Mall:Yes
In the past month have you eaten a box of Oreos:No
In the past month have you eaten Sushi:No
In the past month have you been on Stage:No
In the past month have you been Dumped:No
In the past month have you gone Skinny Dipping:No
In the past month have you Stolen Anything:No
Ever been Drunk:Yes
Ever been called a Tease:Yes
Ever been Beaten up:No
Ever Shoplifted:No
How do you want to Die:I don’t want to think about it
What do you want to be when you Grow Up:Too many things
What country would you most like to Visit:Italy
In a Boy/Girl..
Favourite Eye Color:Blue
Favourite Hair Color:Blonde
Short or Long Hair:Short
Height:Taller than me
Weight:Not a stick but not a whale either
Best Clothing Style:Casual
Number of Drugs I have taken:1
Number of CDs I own:200+ & 2300+ songs on iTunes
Number of Piercings:None
Number of Tattoos:None
Number of things in my Past I Regret:I don’t regret.  Forget Regret or Life is Yours to Miss!

CREATE YOUR OWN! - or - GET PAID TO TAKE SURVEYS!

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Monday the 27th of February, 2006

Coming soon…

to a monitor near you: The New Fiercepoet.com.

I’ve been working on a modified site for some time now.  Completely different site I should say.  Besides content, about the only holdover from the existing site will be the random images in the header.  Layout and design will pretty much be completely new (although how much can you really alter a blog???).

Keep your eyes open as you may see signs of the new site periodically as I switch templates over and test them.  I’m not going to completely go live until I make sure all the kinks are worked out.

Robert

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Monday the 2nd of January, 2006

Search Referring can be Fun

Top search queries for December 2005.  I started this a while back and then quit posting Top Queries for a while.  I’m going to try to get back in the habit of posting Top Search Queries again on either the 1st or 2nd of the month following.  I think it’s interesting to see how people are finding the site and the most common searches are to here.  “Brokeback Mountain” or some form there of takes the cake for December with over 180 known incoming searches.  There are over 700 unknown searches that my stats program lumps together (it only list the top 20 incoming phrases).

68 i wish i knew how to quit you
50 brokeback mountain excerpt
36 brokeback mountain
27 what have you done today to make you feel proud
12 excerpt from brokeback mountain
10 laramie project script
9 gavin degraw gay
8 gavin degraw
8 donnie darko theme song
8 the laramie project script
7 would you tell me how could it be any better than this
6 site:http://www.fiercepoet.com/
6 im a million different people from one day to the next
6 every single day i walk down the street
6 i will never let you go jackie green
5 scotty joe weaver
5 high altitude fucks
5 jennifer dalven
5 gavin degraw music
5 i wish i knew how to quit you brokeback mountain

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Wednesday the 1st of June, 2005

Search Referring can be Fun

60 sheriff mac holcomb
36 damian rice
26 mac holcomb
21 the laramie project script
16 since you’ve been gone i can breath for the first time
14 scotty joe weaver
12 poet
10 green day: i walk a lonely path
10 ira korff
9 donnie darko theme
9 mastercard commercials
8 laramie project script
8 have fun anymore
8 gavin degraw quotes
7 gavin degraw gay
7 i find it kind of funny i find it kind of sad
6 lucy fennell
6 lesbians kissing
6 fornicate
5 mastercard commercial
5 fierce dog
5 meaning of i hope you dance
5 photos of judenrats
5 damian rice lyrics i remember
5 white supremist
5 for the want of a nail
5 poems on handicapp
5 would you tell me how it could be any better than this?
5 sitting wishing waiting

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Sunday the 1st of May, 2005

Search Referring can be Fun

61 damian rice
37 the laramie project script
18 mastercard commercials
17 i find it kind of funny i find it kind of sad
13 laramie project script
12 poet
11 since you’ve been gone i can breath for the first time
10 laramie project
9 how can i stand here with you and not be moved by you would you tell me how could it be any better than this
9 lesbians kissing
8 what classes would you need to be a poet
8 librace
8 gavin degraw quotes
7 donnie darko theme song
7 gavin degraw gay
7 i walk a lonely road
7 other words for sad mad and happy
6 scotty joe weaver
6 would you tell me how could it be any better than this
6 fierce
6 poems with similies
6 alabama’s restuarant
6 i’m a happy boy
6 unfold to a poet
6 bourbon street balcony
6 similies
5 homo say what
5 gay poet
5 i wish you would step off from that ledge my friend
5 josh groban poetry
5 miss you poet
5 damian rice lyric
5 lyrics with similies
5 donnie darko theme
5 quotes from the laramie project
5 conventional poetry

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Friday the 1st of April, 2005

Search Referring can be Fun

101: damian rice
71: i find it kind of funny i find it kind of sad
52: but since you been gone i can breathe for the first time i’m so _________ yeah yeah thanks to you now i get kelly clarkson
36: lesbians kissing
28: mastercard commercials
24: but since you been gone i can breathe for the first time i’m so _________ yeah yeah thanks to you now i get
22: similies
20: and i find it kind of funny i find it kind of sad
18: gavin degraw quotes
16: poet
16: gavin degraw gay
14: laramie project script
14: how can i stand here with you and not be moved by you
14: the laramie project script
14: white supremist
13: damian rice lyrics
13: scotty joe weaver
12: i find it hard to tell you i find it hard to take
11: gay poet
11: rhyme schemes
10: would you tell me how could it be any better than this
10: ira korff
9: i find it hard to tell you
9: religion in schools today
9: i walk a lonely road
9: donnie darko theme
9: conservative quotes
9: ian brumberger
8: i walk a lonely street
8: michangelo
8: mastercard commercial
8: since you’ve been gone i can breath for the first time
8: rule of four
6: you’re all i want you’re all i need
6: pictures of edward field the poet
6: poet from alabama
6: cheer poems
5: i miss you quotes
5: donnie darko theme song
5: david librace
5: dragongirl724
5: damian rice silent night lyrics
5: everything by lifehouse
5: pictures of lesbians kissing
5: i walk this lonely street
5: conscientious objector policy act

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Tuesday the 1st of March, 2005

Search Referring can be Fun

197: damian rice
45: poet
35: mastercard commercials
30: gavin degraw gay
29: damion rice
27: damian rice lyrics
27: bourbon street balcony
25: similies
21: lesbians kissing
16: donnie darko theme
16: i find it kind of funny i find it kind of sad
15: the laramie project script
15: the dreams in which i’m dying are the best i’ve ever had
14: laramie project script
14: mac holcomb
12: gavin degraw quotes
11: and i find it kind of funny i find it kind of sad
11: poems with similies
10: metropolitan deluxe
9: new years 2004
9: poet that are funny
9: i walk a lonely road
9: rhyme schemes
8: if you could could step off from that ledge my friend
8: wish you would step out from that ledge my friend
8: there is always time damian rice lyrics
7: fierce poet holcomb
7: you raise me up words
7: igby goes down quotes
6: i walk a lonely street
6: on the 8th of november song
6: robert frost a dark poet
6: imagery poems
6: gavin degraw facts
6: poet seeking friends
6: damian rice home page
5: the dreams in which i’m dying
5: the dreams in which i’m dying are the best i ever had
5: the rule of four
5: g.mail registration
5: is gavin degraw gay?
5: mastercard commercial
5: obama quoted the bible
5: photos poetry gardening gay blog
5: i wish you would step off from that ledge my friend
5: sheriff holcombe in alabama stands against homosexuality
5: i find it kind of funny i find it kind of sad the dreams in which i’m dying are the best i’ve ever had
5: for the want of a nail
5: fuck the divas
5: suburban love junkies
5: cheer poems
5: when was michangelo born

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Saturday the 29th of January, 2005

Search Referring can be Fun

I was curious as to where all the Google hits are actually coming from and decided to take a look at my website stats.  It provides a specific section on “search terms”.  I’ve taken just the top ones from December as there were hundreds (786 additional terms to be exact) of them actually and I had no desire to go through so many that provided only one hit.  I was more curious about the ones that got multiple inquiries to be honest.  And some of them were from deep within the search results.  I have to wonder what was so interesting about my site that people searched 15, 20 pages deep and found it.  Anyway, here are some thoughts to enjoy.  I’m going to do January sometime next week after I have complete monthly stats.  There are already over 1,000 unique search terms which brought innocent people to my site.  Those poor, unsuspecting souls…

33: mastercard commercials
20: 50 olive garden gift card - Finally found my result on Page 15… Why did 20 people even search that far??
19: i hope you dance - Even worse here, Page 19 and still almost 20 people…
19: savage garden gay
18: happy new year poet - #2 on Page 1 with this one… How cool?
17: gavin degraw gay - #4 on Page 1.  Now that’s what I’m talking about.
15: scotty joe weaver
10: judenrats
10: gavin degraw quotes
18: happy new year poet - #2 on Page 1 with this one… How cool?
9: the sun set upon an argument - No clue here, I quit looking after Page 30
9: the laramie project script - Another Page 1 result…
9: catching things and eating them inside punkrock
8: christmas cheer poems - Another one, 30 pages and no results…
8: g mail - And I still have invites to give away here
8: ira korff - #3 on Page 1…
8: scotty weaver - #3 on Page 1 as well…
8: pay it forward poem - Would you believe, #3 on Page 1 as again…
7: forget regret or life is yours to miss - Slipped one place, #4 on Page 1…

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